THE MOST IMPORTANT FACTOR IN CREATING A GREAT PARTY

Lots of different factors will contribute to creating a great party but the key factor to keep in mind when organizing and setting up your party is all about creating energy.The more energy in the room the better the party will be.Energy can be created in a number of different ways but if you think about any great party you have been to the best ones are were where there was lots of energy.Anyone who has been to a concert or dance party or great nightclub will know that the energy level in the room is what gives you a sense of  excitement,happiness but most importantly will make the night feel fun.Some of the key ways to create this energy is by entertaining your guests,giving your guests things to do and creating interaction between your guests.Throwing a dinner party or getting a few friends over for drinks is not the sort of party I am talking about.I am talking about wild and event full parties,parties were things happen not just a bunch of people sitting around talking and eating.
When organizing your party keep in mind one ,how am I going to create this energy and two is it going to be fun for my guests.People forget that creating fun is important and think that by hiring a function venue ,having a few drinks and putting some helium balloons in the room  is going to be fun.Im sorry to say it but more effort needs to be made unless you dont care about your party.
 It doesnt need to cost you a fortune for your party,what entertainment you have,decor you choose and other factors can all help in creating the energy you need to create a great party and happy life time memories for you and your guests.

Dont just have a party because you feel you should !

I have been to too many parties over the years or hired equipment to people that obviously dont really care about their party but probably more importantly dont care about their guests.Yes you are having a party in most cases for yourself and probably think that as long as you have a good time that is all that matters but if you really want to enjoy your party it will usually come from seeing your guests have a good time more than anything else.
Too many people throw parties just because they feel they should because everyone else is doing it but cant really be bothered making any real effort.People will probably disagree with me when I say this but your guests need more than " its your birthday" to want to come and stay at your party.Yes your guests if they are good friends and family will come to your party as they love you and want to celebrate your milestone but if you want to keep people there and create the night of your life it requires a bit more than that.
If you cant really be bothered and dont want the fuss,just invite people to go out for dinner or  just have a few drinks at your house or a bar.If you want to create a proper party make a bit of effort and Im sure you will be rewarded if you do it right.